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I help people to be able to love well, accept love and make confident decisions in times of change and uncertainty, in life and in their work.    I am confidant, friend, cheerleader...confidential and sometimes, a bit challenging.  But never judgemental for I know everything you do is aimed at good.  Sometimes, it just gets a bit misdirected and a helpful third perspective is useful.

The term spiritual direction has existed for hundreds of years and increasing numbers of people are seeking this type of spiritual mentoring with direct application to daily life.  Most people come for general spiritual direction for an hour every month or six weeks seeking confidential, trusted and uniquely fitted discernment. It's important to know that a spiritual "director" is actually a companion in people's seeking direction; they are not a consultant, coach, therapist or expert.  They are not the source of direction.  But if you are seeking direction, they are a wonderful companion, skilled at asking questions of your wisdom, your desire and particularly, of how God, the divine or spiritual forces are influencing your life.  

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If you know the story of the Emmaus Road, it is like two companions pondering events together and God coming alongside.  It is in the conversation with God that true direction is found.  

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The relationship usually begins with a no-obligation half-hour to explore whether spiritual direction might be appropriate and welcome (and whether I might be the right person).  In my biography are links to organisations in the UK and NZ which offer directories of directors as well as a description of the experience and training I draw upon.  

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Some people have a concept of God. Others have a sense of a life where "there is more to this than meets the eye".  Others don't, but no faith is itself a form of faith.  Humans hunger for ways to create solutions.  Ignatian spirituality is known for its clear processes and being very practical in contemporary ways. It's challenging.

The Spiritual Exercises of St Ignatius are a specific route in which I trained for many years. They are a pilgrimage in daily life, transformative in the way they deepen awareness of each person's unique purpose and how that is expressed - or incompletely expressed.  Fundamental is the desire to seek spiritually (ie. beyond the material) and willingness to commit up to an hour every day (yes, like going to work with a personal trainer).  

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Use the contact form or the "email me" button below if you would like to know more and I will send a copy of my standard working agreement.   Or there's more here.